A resolution to the kid that needs to shit in homes other than his

Yesterday I phoned Droopy. I left a message for her to call me back, as I wanted to know if the 3 family Thanksgiving was still on. Well she called me back while I was on the phone with my friend in CA. I didn't get the voicemail until this morning. It took me 3 tries to listen to the whole rambling message without getting upset. Basically, she feels that her son is not wanted so she and her husband are not wanted. God forbid if any of them need to use the bathroom, but can't because I don't want them to use my bathroom. She's dropped me from the family dinner, and repeated herself twice in the message our family is not wanted, only Big Red's family. Well yea, of course his family is wanted, she gets what she wants from them, whether it's her son taking a shit in their house, walking in without knocking to play on their computer, or even to the generosity of the mom letting Droopy borrow her car to drive to FL for their cruise. Oh and she asked some friends hypothetically what they would do, and her friends are in agreement with her. Of course, it's her version of the incident, and not mine since she wasn't there. Remember this woman never goes outside, always has her drapes and windows closed.

Yea, well my friends agree with me based on my version of the incident. I asked my friend in CA, a friend in Chi-town, my mom, even MIL. Goof has asked a couple of people about it. So it's not a CA thing, it's a basic social faux pas.

I'm just having a hard time wrapping my mind around all this. She said in her voice mail that she did not cause this to happen. My decision to not allow her kid to shit in MY HOUSE brought this all about. I'm not upset that over the two of us not communicating, we would talk maybe once a week. I'm upset that she had the audacity to believe her child has the right to shit in another person's house just because he needs to. I'm upset that her child was denied access into my home when I'm alone, so he ran home to tell his mommy that I wouldn't let him shit in my house. Because ultimately he wants in my house to do whatever the fuck he wants. I'm pissed off because she has no social etiquette to tell her child that it was wrong to ask a neighbor to shit in their house knowing he lives 3 houses away, and his parent was home.

Honestly, this is something that I will be dwelling on for a while. I will tell you that I did not take the bait. I called back and left a message that her opinions were her own, and we chose to disagree. I also wanted a plate back. She never called me back, and I went to her house to get the plate. I knocked on her door, Whinis opened the door, he invited me in, and I waited for 10 min for her to get off the phone, so I could get my plate back. I just told her that, I don't agree with her opinion, and that's all, give me back my plate.

Unfortunately for you all, I will be rehashing all this for a while in the blog. Too many strange requests and accusations from her for me to truly comprehend. Oh wait it must be that I am not smart enough. The woman says she has an IQ of 167. She's fucking Bill Clinton smart. She's part of the less than 1% of the US population with that high of an IQ. Yup, a high school drop out with a GED, and no secondary education. Seriously if you are that fucking smart, college would be fucking easy, student loans, working at McDonald's, grants, scholarships. It's not like she had her kid in high school, so she missed out on opportunities. She just wasted all her chances. Seriously, no aspirations of bettering herself.

Sorry guys, she was right, I am going to spill my vitriol.